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The stats helper monkeys at WordPress.com mulled over how this blog did in 2010, and here’s a high level summary of its overall blog health:

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A Boeing 747-400 passenger jet can hold 416 passengers. This blog was viewed about 3,900 times in 2010. That’s about 9 full 747s.

 

In 2010, there were 53 new posts, growing the total archive of this blog to 172 posts. There were 2 pictures uploaded, taking up a total of 2mb.

The busiest day of the year was April 7th with 144 views. The most popular post that day was Birth before the arrival of a midwife.

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The top referring sites in 2010 were 3shiresmidwife.co.uk, facebook.com, en.wordpress.com, twitter.com, and studentmidwife.net.

Some visitors came searching, mostly for midwife blog, valerie gommon, skinny women and pregnancy, albany midwives suspended, and placentophagy research.

Attractions in 2010

These are the posts and pages that got the most views in 2010.

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Birth before the arrival of a midwife May 2009

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“Super skinny pregnancies” March 2009
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Independent Midwifery and snow Part II January 2010
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Eating the placenta (placentophagy)? October 2009
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Freebirthing / Unassisted birth May 2009
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I’ve been quiet lately as I’ve been busy with births and also taken a few days out with my family – life as an Independent Midwife can get busy and I’m now gearing up for the next babies!  www.3shiresmidwife.co.uk

In the press this week was another Freebirthing article in The Independent www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/healthy-living/first-person-i-gave-birth-without-any-medical-help-1739831.html Cher Sievey gave birth to her second daughter without medical assistance and was just supported by her partner.

I have previously written about Freebirthing https://midwifevalerie.wordpress.com/2009/05/03/freebirthing-unassisted-birth/ and whilst certainly not condoning unattended birthing I do understand the reasons that some women are reluctant to seek the support of doctors and midwives.

Following my recent posting when I mentioned that some women choose unassisted birth as a result of previous trauma, I have recently read that  American actor and talk-show host Rikki Lake has revealed that she was sexually abused as a young child.

Ricki Lake bravely discusses her past in her new book “Your Best Birth”.  Lake discusses her past battles with her weight and body image but goes on to describe the healing that she has experienced through her own birthing experiences, and I have to say that this concurs with my experiences as a midwife – I absolutely believe that a positive birth experience can be healing and empowering for women whether their past trauma was sexual abuse or a traumatic birth experience and am very happy to speak to women about this subject www.3shiresmidwife.co.uk.   It is well recognised by midwives that pregnancy and birth are significant times for women who have experienced sexual abuse – memories may well come to the fore, or a woman may remember events that she had previously buried and forgotten.

The documentary “The Business of Being Born”, www.thebusinessofbeingborn.com, which Lake made with filmmaker Abby Epstein, has touched many people and was championed by both the Independent Midwives Association (IMA) www.independentmidwives.org and the National Childbirth Trust (NCT) www.nct-org.uk and has been shown to packed audiences around this country and abroad.

Help is available for survivors of child sexual abuse from a number of sources including:

www.thesurvivorstrust.org

www.childline.org.uk

www.sheilakitzinger.com

Freebirthing or unassisted birth has been discussed in the media over the past year or so; freebirthing is when a woman or couple decide to give birth with no medical input.

Last year there was a Channel 5 documentary called Extraordinary People: Outlaw Births http://freebirthing.org/ which gave a fascinating insight into three women’s experiences and reasons for taking this unusual route.  For some women they just feel “in tune” and “in control” of their lives and bodies and feel no need to seek a professional who may interfere with the process and their wishes, for others like Janet Fraser www.joyousbirth.info it is a reaction against what she calls “birth rape” (birth interventions done against the woman’s wishes) at a previous birth;  for others it may be unintentional and that the baby just comes faster than expected www.guardian.co.uk/society/2009/apr/30/father-delivers-baby-youtube-clips

Obviously as a midwife I would not suggest that women give birth without medical aid; however I do understand that for some women birth is a private, intimate affair and I certainly understand that women who have been subjected to any violence whether that be sexual abuse, “birth rape” or any other emotional challenges may find intimate examinations extremely difficult.

I have encountered women who are unable to labour in my presence, and who wish absolutely minimal intervention.  I have also heard of women wishing to give birth alone but who have allowed a midwife to sit in the next room just in case help is required.  I believe this to be far preferable to giving birth alone and would be willing to support a client in this way www.3shiresmidwife.co.uk.  Women should remember that it is an assault for any medical professional to do anything to them against their wishes; this includes measuring blood pressure, the administration of any drug or intimate examinations.

I have recently learnt that Janet Fraser gave birth to her last baby without assistance and that sadly this baby did not make it.  It is unclear whether her baby had died in utero and whether medical help would have saved her baby, but it does highlight the dangers of unassisted birth.

Further information and support can be obtained from:

www.sheilakitzinger.com/birthcrisis.htm
www.unassistedchildbirth.com


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