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Another guest blog by Sarah:

Harlow Zen’s Birth Story

Harlow is my third baby having had Rohan 9 years previously and Nayt almost 8 years ago.  With Rohan I was induced at 10 days late, in hospital, with an epidural given as I was told he was back to back and it would be too painful, I ended up after 17 hours flat on my back, with a nasty tear and a pretty miserable painful experience to tell but a beautiful baby nonetheless.  I had Nayt 16 months later and keen to never set foot in a hospital again, we used 2 Independent Midwives and had an amazing natural home water birth, in less than 4 hours with no pain relief, no stitches and 23 days late! I was out and about within days, a completely different experience to my first. Both babies were reasonable sizes at 8lb 13oz and 9lb 2oz respectively.

With Harlow, because he was my husbands first and I was a bit rusty having had a good few years off baby making, we decided to use another Independent Midwife as the 1-2-1 care is like nothing else, and gives you the confidence that you will get the best birth outcome and overall experience possible, as they really get to know and understand you.  As my pregnancy progressed it was clear this baby was going to be on the large size, which I had kind of expected. I was advised to cut down on sugar but with a massive cake craving, this didn’t really happen, so I tried damage limitation by continuing to ride as long as I could and towards the end to swim daily and keep up with walking the dog.

I think my confidence in giving birth was knocked a bit towards the end because I had to have a series of late scans to check the placental position, as was slightly lying low at the 20 week scan. This showed up that at 34 weeks the baby was the size of a full term baby. I am reasonable at simple maths, and that added up to one BIG bubba!!

Because of this, I was told to expect an early baby. Unlike my other two pregnancies where I had no pre-labour signs whatsoever, I was starting to get runs of proper contractions about 3 weeks prior to my due date. I had so many signs in fact that I have decided there are no signs until the baby is literally crowning!! Along with contractions, I was nesting, had a show,  had a permanently bad tummy, babies head engaged….never happened to me before labour with the other two, bump shifted down….and then my due date came and went…and my bump un-engaged and shifted up!!!

On Tuesday 18th May after my husband Adam had taken the kids to school I started to get decent contractions. I really felt like today was the day. By midday they had gone, and annoyed I took my dog on a hill walk hoping to jolt the baby out with some gravity! Nothing! I was really sure that was it too, as my dog Phoebe had been all over protective, following me around and sleeping beside me wherever I went.

They started again around 11pm, but having sent our midwife numerous ‘I think its started’ texts over the last few weeks, decided to sleep on it.  At 1.55am Wednesday 19th May I woke up with a jolt as my waters literally burst all over the place. I managed eventually to wake my husband up who had fallen asleep on the sofa downstairs and after a massive clean up operation we called our midwife Valerie and she came out straight away.

The contractions had stopped but restarted around 3am and were roughly every 3 mins, reasonably painful (a 5-6) but not lasting too long. We all tried to get some sleep at 6am, but the contractions slowed down a lot.  By the time my kids woke up and we had agreed they could take the day off school, they were back to quite painful and we all thought finally ‘this is it!’. By about 9.30am I got into the birth pool my husband had busied himself filling and my labour ground to a halt and slowed down. My parents came and took the kids out for lunch as it was my Dads birthday, and gave me a bit of space and peace. At 1pm-ish we asked Valerie to examine me and I was disappointed to find I was barely dilated, and all that pain and hard work had merely helped Harlow to get into a better position.  Valerie left for home and me and Adam went for a walk, had some lunch and then at 5.20pm decided to get some sleep.  My kids were sent off to their rooms to watch a film.

At this point I was feeling despondent and was sure my pain threshold was rubbish. I started soon after to get contractions every 8-9 mins, lasting almost 2 mins and they were really painful. The peaks seemed to last for 40 seconds before subsiding. By almost 7pm I was crying and convinced I was still about 3 cm dilated.  I got very emotional and was convinced I would end up in hospital with a c-section. Adam was amazing and really supported me. He suggested we call Valerie, who had just text me. She came out with the entonox and as soon as she arrived I was getting the urge to push. I was on all fours and could not move into any other position…how I got downstairs I have no idea!!!

I managed to get downstairs and Adam re-filled the pool which we had drained down partially earlier.  I got in, and contractions were very close, strong and the peak lasted ages. Adam was great and helped me get the gas and air when I needed it, and provided emotional support as well as an arm for me to dig my nails in (sorry Adam!!), and Valerie helped me to get past the panicky ‘I cant do this’ with encouragement that I could really trust in.  At 8.20pm I could feel Harlow move down and he was born in the birth pool at 8.40pm. Valerie had called my kids down and they both watched their little brothers entrance into the world.

Harlow was born behind me, so with some jigging I was able to climb over my cord and hold him.  He cried a little and had a feed quite soon afterwards.  He was covered in vernix and his skin felt so soft.  He looked just like 3d scan picture and apparently my first words were ‘Hello Harlow’.  Adam cut the cord after it stopped pulsating and Valerie tied the cord with a cord tie I made specially for the event, and as I delivered the placenta naturally an hour later, Adam, and the kids had all taken turns to hold Harlow and make their introductions. It was the most special sight ever and something they will never forget, nor will I.

At 10.30pm we sent the kids to bed, and after a glass of champagne with Valerie; myself, Adam and Harlow settled down for our first night together. Perfect.

We were all a bit shocked that Harlow tipped the scales at 10lb 6oz, and I got away with a tiny tear and a graze and no stitches!! It was a more painful labour than Nayts birth, and the longest overall labour, but an amazing experience that 5 days after the event makes me ask ‘when can I do it again’???.

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ENTONOX

Also known as “gas and air” (50% oxygen and 50% nitrous oxide).

Self administered through a mask or mouth piece

Used to breathe in and out during contraction

Helps you cope with the pain and also acts as a distraction by giving you something to focus on

ADVANTAGES

Helps take the edge off the pain

Does not affect baby

Can not overdose

Can stop using it at any time

DISADVANTAGES

Can make you nauseous or vomit

Can make you feel “drunk” or out of control

MEPTID

A pain killing drug similar to pethidine.  It is given by injection either into your bottom or thigh.  It usually relaxes you a bit and takes the edge off the pain.  This drug has to be prescribed.  We give an amount proportionate to your weight.

ADVANTAGES

This drug helps some women

The effects on the baby are probably slightly less than pethidine

The nausea/”drunk” feeling may be less than pethidine

Can be given again after 2 hours

DISADVANTAGES

It can make some women feel nauseous and vomit

Some women do not to feel “out of control”

It may affect the baby’s breathing/ability to breastfeed if given shortly before the baby is born

Can not have meptid if having a waterbirth

PETHIDINE

A pain killing drug, given by injection into your bottom or thigh.  It takes about 20 minutes to take effect and lasts for up to four hours.  It usually takes the edge off the pain and relaxes you.

ADVANTAGES

Effective pain relief for some women and relaxing if nervous

Can help you to sleep

DISADVANTAGES

Some women do not like the “out of control” feeling

Can cause nausea and vomiting

For some women it has no effect at all

Pethidine crosses the placenta and can affect baby’s breathing/ability to feed (antidote is available)

Can not have if having a waterbirth

DIAMORPHINE

Similar to Pethidine – A pain killing drug, given by injection into your bottom or thigh.  It takes about 20 minutes to take effect and lasts for up to four hours.  It usually takes the edge off the pain and relaxes you.

ADVANTAGES

Effective pain relief for some women and relaxing if nervous

Can help you to sleep – long lasting

DISADVANTAGES

Some women do not like the “out of control” feeling

Can cause nausea and vomiting

For some women it has no effect at all

Diamorphine crosses the placenta and can affect baby’s breathing/ability to feed

Can not have if having a waterbirth

EPIDURAL

An epidural is where painkilling drugs are passed into the small of your back via a fine tube. It is called a regional anaesthetic, which means the drug is injected around the nerves that carry signals from the part of your body that feels pain when you’re in labour. The result will be that your belly feels numb, giving you very effective pain relief

ADVANTAGES

Good pain relief – especially if labour is long, or instrumental delivery is required

It can be used during a caesarean section and therefore avoids the use of a general anaesthetic

DISADVANTAGES

You need to remain very still whilst epidural is being sited

It causes a drop in maternal blood pressure:

You will need an intravenous drip to counter this drop in blood pressure

Drugs used pass through the placental barrier

Your baby will need to be continually monitored – in extreme circumstances the baby can become distressed necessitating an urgent caesarean section

You will usually need a urinary catheter to empty your bladder

It can slow the labour necessitating a syntocinon drip to get contractions going again

It restricts your movement – usually you will be confined to bed and it can be harder for the baby to get into the best possible position for birth, this can make the labour longer, and make it more likely that you need help (ventouse, forceps or caesarean section)

It may not be 100% effective and you can have “break-through” pain

There is a lack of sensation to ‘push’ in the second stage and this leads to an increased need for ventouse or forceps deliveries

The effects can take some time to wear off



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