Posted by: gommon on: November 26, 2008
My first blog, and introduction to me
I am Valerie Gommon, a Registered Midwife and an Independent Midwife and this is my first attempt at blogging. First of all, a brief introduction to who I am and what I get up to:
I am a midwife in Independent (or Private) Practice and offer full continuity of care throughout the antenatal period, labour and birth and up to one month postnatal. I am married to James and together we have four (almost) grown up children. Our family home is in North Buckinghamshire.
My interest in birth spans more than two decades and started with the birth of my first son. I was keen to learn more about the birth process and gradually learnt more about childbirth and parenting skills and subsequently had my next three children at home.
I became involved in La Leche League (a group which supports and promotes breastfeeding), the National Childbirth Trust, A.I.M.S. (the pressure group Association for Improvements in Maternity Services), and our local Birth Information Group. Through my involvement in these groups I began to support other women and acted as a birth supporter and in turn began to teach birth preparation classes and sometimes supported these women during childbirth. Eventually my own children were grown enough for me to consider training to become a midwife and I worked within the NHS for a number of years as both a hospital and community midwife. I am therefore confident in all areas of midwifery practice including homebirth, waterbirth, active birth and vaginal birth after caesarean section; I particularly enjoy parenthood education.
For the majority of women childbirth should be recognised as a normal event, I enjoy supporting women and families at this significant time in their lives. My aim is for women to be fully informed and active partners in their care. I believe this will empower women and their partners to obtain the most from this precious experience and can then enable them to move forwards into parenthood in a positive way.
I am an active campaigner for improvements in maternity services and am a member of Milton Keynes Birth Information Group and MK Mums. I also act as guest lecturer and mentor student midwives. Currently I am a local representative of the Association of Radical Midwives, a member of AIMS (Association for Improvements in Maternity Services), a member of IMA (Independent Midwives Association) as well as being a member of the Royal College of Midwives.
By working independently, I can offer the luxury of unhurried appointments in the comfort of a client’s own home allowing plenty of time to prepare for the birth. I like to think I am an experienced, sensitive midwife who works with clients to help obtain the best possible experience at this special time – pregnancy outcomes (types of birth, length of labour, need for pain relief, maternal satisfaction and length of breastfeeding) have been shown to be improved by having a known and trusted midwife – I believe that this is something every woman deserves and will continue to work towards this aim.
I usually work alone, but have the back up of other Independent Midwives if needed.
Please do feel free to give me a call for an informal discussion if you wish to discuss anything I have written.
Tel: 01908 511247
info@3shiresmidwife.co.uk
Posted by: gommon on: July 13, 2009
I’ve been quiet lately as I’ve been busy with births and also taken a few days out with my family – life as an Independent Midwife can get busy and I’m now gearing up for the next babies! www.3shiresmidwife.co.uk
In the press this week was another Freebirthing article in The Independent www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/healthy-living/first-person-i-gave-birth-without-any-medical-help-1739831.html Cher Sievey gave birth to her second daughter without medical assistance and was just supported by her partner.
I have previously written about Freebirthing http://midwifevalerie.wordpress.com/2009/05/03/freebirthing-unassisted-birth/ and whilst certainly not condoning unattended birthing I do understand the reasons that some women are reluctant to seek the support of doctors and midwives.
Posted by: gommon on: July 3, 2009
A baby in a “posterior” position can lead to a longer and more difficult labour and also what is known as a “backache” labour.
There is lots you can do to try to turn your baby antenatally, like lying on your left side in bed, lying on the sofa on your left side with your belly hanging over the edge. Spending time on all-fours (wash the kitchen floor!), or sit on a birth ball and ensure that when sitting your knees are lower than your hips – a great position is to sit “backwards” on a dining chair (facing the back of the chair).
Other ideas include:
1) Belly lunges – Woman needs to stand as if about to do African dancing
(ie knees loose, bum out, body forward). She needs to put her hands, cupped together, at her syphilis pubis, supporting her belly, but not lifting it. – She then needs to lunge forward – with a contraction- and finish off with a Rocky Horror style back and forth wiggle. – she won’t find it comfortable, and may not do it effectively the first attempt – but do two with each leg, and it’s often successful!
2) Walk sideways up the stairs.
3) Nest-making – Make the woman a ‘nest’ for her belly, out of pillows/duvets. Get her lying comfortably, face down, and leave her to rest/sleep.
4) The woman can stand sideways to a wall, and lunge against it, with her arms stretched quite high.
5) Real knee-chest – i.e. thighs at right angles to shins, and chest on the floor (followed by 5 mins on each side in a darkened room).
6) Doggy thing – woman needs to be on all fours, then cock one leg up and rest it on a chair.
7) Moxibustion
Cranio-sacral therapist
9) Bottom jiggling (for relaxation!)
10)Alternating hot/cold towels on the back (for pain relief)
www.spinningbabies.com has lots of great ideas.
Posted by: gommon on: June 30, 2009
A pregnant woman went into labour near the festival’s Stone Circle on Saturday.
The woman, a regular Glastonbury goer, is understood to have been keen to deliver the child in the Green Fields. She asked for help from “naturopathic experts” from the Healing Fields, rather than conventional painkillers.
Amazingly her own midwife was on the onsite medial team, and it was decided that for safety they should move to the midwife’s practice in a nearby village.
The woman left the site to have her baby and so the infant was denied the distinction of being the first Glastonbury birth since 1998.
By a stroke of luck her midwife was on the onsite medial team. It was decided that for safety they should move to the midwife’s practice in a nearby village.
Posted by: gommon on: June 21, 2009
I hope you will find something of interest here – if you are able to help me publicise these events even better!
Parents with Prams Walking Group
Weekly walks around the Ouzel Valley Park and Willen Lake for about an hour
Tuesdays at 10.30
For further details phone Siobhan 07818 078828 or click here
June 2009
Antenatal Exhibition – FREE entry
Sunday 28th June
2 – 4.30 pm
The Guildhall, Church of Christ the Cornerstone, Central Milton Keynes
Email for more details info@3shiresmidwife.co.uk
July 2009
MK Wellness Circle
Wed 15th July
7.30 pm – 9.30 pm
The Well at Willen, Newport Road, Willen, Milton Keynes MK15 9AA
www.global-wellness-circle.com
September 2009
Milton Keynes Birth Information Group
Lunchtime meeting
Friday 4th September 12 – 2pm
Please email info@3shiresmidwife.co.uk / Tel: 01908 511247 for venue
MK Baby and Toddler Show – FREE Entry
Sunday 6th September 2009
The Stadium, Denbigh,
Milton Keynes
info here
Beds and Bucks Bumps and Beyond
Antenatal and Early Years Exhibition
Sunday 13th September
1pm – 4 pm
Flitwick Village Hall
Association Of Radical Midwives Meeting
Wednesday 9th September 2009
7 – 10 pm
Rectory Cottage, Church Green Lane, Bletchley.
info@3shiresmidwife.co.uk / Tel: 01908 511247
Link 2 Health and Care Event – FREE Entry
Tuesday 29th September 2009
10 am – 4 pm
Middleton Hall
Central Milton Keynes
October 2009
Antenatal Exhibition – FREE entry
Sunday 4th October
2 – 4.30 pm
The Guildhall, Church of Christ the Cornerstone, CMK
Email for more details info@3shiresmidwife.co.uk
Posted by: gommon on: June 19, 2009
Childbirth at 65
With all the new technology regarding fertility recently, a 65-year-old friend of mine was able to give birth. When she was discharged from the hospital and went home, I went to visit. ‘May I see the new baby?’ I asked ‘Not yet ,’ She said ‘I’ll make coffee and we can chat for a while first.’
Thirty minutes had passed, and I asked, ‘May I see the new baby now?’
‘No, not yet,’ she said.
After another few minutes had elapsed,
I asked again, ‘May I see the baby now?’
‘No, not yet,’ replied my friend.
Growing very impatient, I asked, ‘Well, when can I see the baby?’
‘WHEN HE CRIES!’ she told me.
‘WHEN HE CRIES?’ I demanded. ‘Why do I have to wait until he CRIES?’
‘BECAUSE I FORGOT WHERE I PUT HIM, O.K.?!!’
Okay, so this was a bit of light-hearted nonsense, but … it is true a woman of 66 gave birth to a son in May after undergoing IVF treatment in a Ukraine clinic. In the UK fertility treatment is not usually recommended for women over 40.
Posted by: gommon on: June 17, 2009
Photographer Emma O’Brien from Lumiere Vrai writes:
Pregnancy photography has grown in popularity ever since Demi Moore graced the cover of Vanity Fair magazine in 1991 at eight months pregnant, naked except for a pair of earrings! The photograph, taken by Annie Leibovitz, was deemed to be scandalous and morally offensive (to some people) at the time, thankfully things have moved on as a result of her ground breaking image.
Pregnancy is an interesting time in a woman’s life. I adored being pregnant and I know lots of women who feel really happy and comfortable with their bodies when they’re expecting. I also know of an equal number of women who would happily have their offspring delivered by the Ocado man to save on the discomfort factor!!!
Either way, creating a photographic record of your pregnancy by having professional “bump” photos taken is a wonderful way of remembering the last few months of calm before little feet pad onto the scene. The ideal time to have a pregnancy shoot is around 34 weeks, late on enough to have a beautifully defined bump, but not so late as to miss the shoot if baby arrives earlier than expected!
I feel privileged to be able to photograph women and couples at such a special time in their lives, I can then look forward to photographing the new baby which is a whole different challenge!!
Emma has a studio at Silverstone, near to Milton Keynes and also shoots on location. She has photographed me, and although I hate having my photograph taken I can testify that Emma is brilliant and made the whole experience a pleasure.
Posted by: gommon on: June 16, 2009
An interesting article in The Guardian today discussing the increased risks for women over 35 when planning pregnancies. www.guardian.co.uk/society/2009/jun/15/older-mothers-health-risks
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists (RCOG) suggest that women should become mothers by the age of 35 or risk infertility, miscarriage and health problems. It is suggested that the optimum time to have a baby is between 20 and 35 years of age.
Both the RCOG and the Royal College of Midwives (RCM) however do support a women’s right to have children as later, but recognise that many women are simply unaware of the increased risks for older mothers and that that using fertility treatment is not a guarantee of success.
Excellent information on preconception issues can be found at:
http://midwifevalerie.wordpress.com/2008/12/05/planning-a-baby/www.haveababy.com
www.womantomother.co.uk
www.foresight-preconception.org.uk
www.zitawest.com
www.eatwell.gov.uk/agesandstages/pregnancy/whenyrpregnant/
Posted by: gommon on: June 14, 2009
Okay, so this posting is very controversial – obviously the Department of Health line is that it is much safer for children/people to receive vaccination that to have the disease and suffer the consequences. Information is available from www.immunisation.nhs.uk.
However there are others who question our immunisation programme and I recently attended a talk given by Ursula Kraus-Harper, a homeopath who is one of them. Much of the information given below was obtained at Ursula’s talk and I post it here for you to have references if you wish to look into this issue further.
Immunisation
a) A process that increases an organisms reaction to antigen and therefore improves its ability to resist or overcome infection.
b) A technique used to induce immune resistance to a specific disease in humans or other mammals by exposing the individual to an antigen in order to raise antibodies to that antigen.
Vaccination
Injection of a killed microbe in order to stimulate the immune system against the microbe, thereby preventing disease. Vaccinations, or immunisations, work by stimulating the immune system, the natural disease-fighting system of the body. The healthy immune system is able to recognize invading bacteria and viruses and produce substances (antibodies) to destroy or disable them.
Source: www.medterms.com
Resources
1. Childhood Diseases and Their Vaccines (e-book; £8)
by Dr. Jayne LM Donegan MBBS DRCOG DCH DFFPMRCGP MFHom can be downloaded from www.jayne-donegan.co.uk/LinkClick.aspx?fileticket=d%2ffky%2fIvwv4%3d&tabid=826 includes other sources of information.
2. The British National Vaccination Schedule can be downloaded from www.fitfortravel.scot.nhs.uk/home
3. The European Forum on Vaccine Vigilance website , with a whole page of links to other relevant sites: http://users.telenet.be/vaccine.damage.prevention/englishhomepage
4. Table of Vaccination ingredients can be downloaded from www.informedchoice.info
5. Dr. Richard Halvorsen’s website on vaccination, especially MMR: www.cryshame.org
6. Dr. Tinus Smits website with information and lots of cases about vaccination damage and its treatment with homeopathy is www.tinussmits.com
7. Australian Homeopath Dr. Isaac Golden has carried out extensive, long-term research into homeopathic prophylaxis of childhood illnesses and has written two books:
- Vaccination and Homoeoprophylaxis? A Review of Risks and Alternatives
- Vaccine Damaged Children? Treatment, Prevention, Reasons
see his website www.homstudy.net
8. Ian Sinclair has studied and researched vaccination and natural health philosophy for over 20 years inAustralia. His book “Vaccination – The “hidden” facts (1992) can be ordered via his website www.vaccinationdebate.com
There are further sources of information available from:
BOOKS
Vaccination – Viera Scheibner
Vaccination and Immunization, Dangers, Delusions and Alternatives – Leon Chaitow
Immunisation against infectious disease – Department of Health HMSO
DPT – A Shot in the Dark – H L Coutter and K Fisher
The Vaccination Handbook – R Newstaedter
PAPERS
The case against immunisation – R Moskowitz ?from Society of Homoeopaths
Vaccination – the real issues – Ian Townsend (Thesis)
The Homoeopath – The Journal of the Society of Homoeopaths Vol 4 No 4 Summer 1984 (May be an updated version?)
BOOKLET
Immunisations – Mothering Special Edition www.mothering.com
WEBSITES
www.informedparent.co.uk
www.jabs.org.uk (this site is for parents of vaccine damaged children, not light reading)
www.breakspearmedical.com – for single vaccines
www.babyjabs.co.uk - for single vaccines
(Do a search for The People’s Doctor)
Posted by: gommon on: June 7, 2009
I recently attended a professional development course where Dr Anthony Williams, Reader in Child Nutrition and Consultant in neonatal Paediatrics, St George’s Hospital, University of London spoke about the medical benefits of breastfeeding.
We all know “Breast is best” but the facts make interesting reading:
Maternal effects:
Posted by: gommon on: June 4, 2009
Just a reminder that this group is meeting on Friday 5th June from 12 – 2pm.
An opportunity to discuss any aspect of pregnancy, birth and early parenting, this is a FREE event, and we will be meeting for a shared lunch.
Homebirth – Hospital Birth – Active Birth – Waterbirth – Birth After Previous Caesarean – Breastfeeding – Early Parenting
Do feel free to come along – all welcome.
Phone Valerie on 01908 511247 or email info@mkbig.org.uk for details. www.mkbig.org.uk